Here is one of the biggest questions I get when people are on a job search.
“How do I find my passion?”
When you find yourself liberated from your job responsibilities and on a job search, you have some time on your hands to reconsider what you are doing with your career and you too may have asked yourself something like, “What is my life purpose?” or “Should I do something new with my career?” Loving what you do, and having complete passion for it will bring you the great rewards. If you currently have a hard time distinguishing between work and play, that is a good measure that you have passion for your current career. If not, it is not too late to discover your passion and purpose. You may have a particular gift that you were born with, a talent, or specific experience that is inspiring and engaging for you. Something that calls to you.
People ask me why I chose to become a Results Coach and I say, “I didn’t choose it, it chose me!” One day it became so obvious that this was what was calling me so I said “YES!”
Take some time and paper and write the answers to the questions below. It may become obvious to you too, or it may just plant a seed that will start to sprout and sign posts will suddenly start calling you “this way”.
If money were no problem, what would you do?
What is easy and effortless for you to do?
What has given you the most joy and satisfaction in your life?
What qualities do you admire in your roles models?
What area has been a constant challenge but you continually work at getting better at it. For example health, relationships, money, confidence, creativity…
What drives you that might benefit others? Typically an area where you are complimented and admired.
List your favorite hobbies and passions in life?
What is an area that you would like to be of service?
After answering those questions and you find something is calling you, ask yourself this important question. “Could I give my life to this?” If yes, you have found your passion and purpose in life. Now declare it and go do it!
In 2004, I gave my life to inspiring people to have great lives by declaring my commitment to it. The universe then started lining up people and events for me and I thank my lucky stars for having the courage to listen to that calling and follow it. At the bottom of this article is the personal declaration that I wrote in 2004 that led to my taking a Leap of Faith!
Before I make it look too easy let’s cover some important points
The process of following your heart can be like going out into the wilderness and roping in a wild horse. Are you prepared to do the hard work to make your passion your life’s work or do you just want to hold the image but not do the work?
You may fail before you succeed. We know how constraining the fear of failure is but, you may not realize that fear of success can be just as tough on you. Are you willing to learn from failure as you figure out how to be successful?
There are many examples in history of famous people not having the best reputation on their road to success. This includes quitting or getting kicked out of college, being fired, going bankrupt, and many went on to be wildly famous and successful. Did you know that before he became successful, Henry Ford went broke several times? Are you willing to risk what others might think or how you might be judged as you are on the road to success?
Bottom-line, the path to success it filled with hidden obstacles, do you have the tenacity, determination, and courage to get through them?
When you do find your passion and purpose and you are prepared to give your life to it, then go and do it. You’ll chuckle when you realize that it has been there all along, just waiting for you. When you can look at your life and see that you are truly living your passion and purpose, doors begin to open, people line up and impulses and events become in sync with what you are up to. Is there something you “should do”? Nope, it is all for your own enjoyment of your life. What if you don’t discover your passion and purpose? Keep looking as you joyfully go through life and sooner or later you will likely stumble upon it. It is never too late so when you do find it, go do it!
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Here is my Personal Charter written in 2004 before I ever knew I would be a Results Coach.
My purpose in life is to be an everyday hero for myself and others. Inspiring people to see their greatness and encouraging them to inspire others.
The values that are at the heart of who I am are:
- Love for the Human Spirit
- Generosity and Inspiration
- Freedom of Self Expression
- Courage to Play the Game of Life full out
What I can be counted on for is…
Be a source of love and compassion for all.
Be a stand for people being extraordinary and cause them to see the greatest vision they have for themselves.
Rise to the challenges of life with grace and celebrate the gift that life is.
This is who I am and what you can count on.
~Donna Fedor
June 2004

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